The time has finally arrived: your wedding day! You probably didn't sleep much, but it's now morning and we're here to tell you that the nervous, jittery feeling that you're feeling: is completely normal! Every detail that you've been dreaming of is about to come to fruition!

A wedding has many moving parts; there's your dress, your hair and makeup, your venue, your caterer, your florist and planner, and it's worrying about whether or not your groom is prepared......... STOP! And just breathe! 

​Here's a list of things to tell yourself the morning of your wedding: 

​It's Going To Be Okay
Like really, everything is going to be okay! It's your wedding day, whatever happens, just let it go! At the end of the day, you'll still be married to the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with!

You Are Beautiful
Yes, you are truly beautiful! We all have our issues when it comes to our appearances, no one is immune to that. But remember, your groom loves you and is marrying you for who you are, not what you look like. Don't let the little voices in your head weigh you down....you are beautiful! 

Trust Your Vendor Team
You hired your wedding professionals for a reason. For many vendors, this isn't their first rodeo. Now trust that they'll have your back and give you a day that you'll always remember!

Love Surrounds You
Remember that on your wedding day, you are surrounded by people that love you. Your friends and family are there to support you because of their love and they only want to see you happy. 

Enjoy A Moment Alone With Your Spouse
Your wedding day will feel like a whirl wind that's going ninety to nothing. Remember to take a moment to yourselves, even if it's just for a short period of time. It's your wedding day! Yes, your guests are there to celebrate your union and will be excited to congratulate you, but at the end of the day, it'll just be you and your groom; show him during your wedding that he's the most important thing in your life. 

Our suggestion is to take a moment after the ceremony/post-ceremony photos and before the reception to sit down in solitude with your groom. Have a quick, intimate meal, have a drink, or just enjoy the alone time, before the whirlwind of wedding events continue. ​

ALABAMA
 Hampton Cove Wedding Plantation
Gurley, AL
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ARKANSAS
The Brick Ballroom
Siloam Springs, AR​
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DELAWARE
The Farmhouse
Wilmington,  DE
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FLORIDA
​Club Lake Plantation
​Apopka, FL
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GEORGIA
The Cotton Mill
Jefferson, GA
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KENTUCKY
The Barn at Cedar Grove
Greensburg, KY
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LOUISIANA
The White Magnolia
Kentwood, LA
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MARYLAND
1840s Plaza
Baltimore, MD
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MISSISSIPPI
Desert Plantation
Woodville, MS
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NORTH CAROLINA
Biltmore
Asheville, NC
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OKLAHOMA
Coles Garden
Oklahoma City, OK
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SOUTH CAROLINA
Tanglewood Plantation
Lynchburg, SC
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TENNESSEE 
Belle Meade Plantation
Nashville, TN
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TEXAS
The White Sparrow
Quinlan, TX
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VIRGINIA
Sundara
Boones Mill, VA
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WEST VIRGINIA
The Greenbrier
White Sulphur Springs, WV
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Photography by: MLM Photography | Bride: Shruhi Modi | Groom: Ravi Patel

An Engagement Story by Shruhi:
​"After 3 and a half years and a year of asking “when are we gonna get married?” it finally happened. So the Thursday before Father’s Day weekend, Ravi shows up at like 10pm out of nowhere at my house. My parents are like “uhh Shruhi did you know Ravi was coming?” And I’m like “no he didn’t tell you guys at least?!” So everyone was shocked to see him and he surprises me and shows up out of nowhere all the time, so I didn’t think anything of it. And so every year all my aunts and uncles in my hometown get together on St. Simons island for Father’s Day and we grill and hang out. So my dad had mentioned that the Father’s Day Get Together was on Saturday and I was like “oh okay sounds good, Ravi and I will be there.” So Saturday comes around and Ravi says “oh let’s go a little early and we can get just spend time together and get ice cream at Fuse” (it’s a frozen yogurt shop on St. Simons and every time Ravi and I are together we get frozen yogurt, so again I didn’t think anything of it.) So we get to the island and we get frozen yogurt and walk around and Ravi says “oh hold on I forgot napkins I’ll be right back.” So I’m just sitting on the bench eating my ice cream and he comes back with napkins and says “oh they were having some kind of raffle at Fuse so I entered our names in.” (So Ravi is literally always entering raffles at his job every few months and he’s always winning, it’s crazy.) So when someone called him 15 minutes later saying he won the raffle, I didn’t think anything of it. So we go back to Fuse and they’re like “you guys won tickets to the lighthouse! Enjoy!” And I’m like oh that’s awesome, I’ve only been once when I like 8 years old. Little did I know, that when he went back to “get napkins” he actually gave the people fake Tickets to the lighthouse and asked the Fuse worker to call him saying he won the raffle. So we go over to the St. Simons Island lighthouse and Ravi hands the desk clerks these tickets. They look at him a little weird but I have to go to the bathroom so again, I don’t think anything of it. Again, little did I know they were fake tickets and he had the real ones on his phone in an email that he conveniently showed them while I had to go to the bathroom, without me knowing. So I go to the bathroom and come back and Ravis like okay let’s go up. So we start walking up and get to the top and it’s just us and some random lady who looks like a classic tourist with a camera and fanny pack. So then I, myself, go to this lady and ask her to take a photo of Ravi and I. Little did I know, this lady was the photographer Ravi had hired to take photos of the proposal. So she takes a photo on our phone and then she says “oh here, I have a professional camera I can take a better photo of you guys and just send it to you. You guys are so cute.” So in my mind I’m like well that’s a little weird but that’s really nice of her so sure. So I pose for the photo and she says “look turn around!” And I turn and Ravi is on his knee with the ring and he’s like “look down.” So I look down from the lighthouse and there’s someone at the bottom holding a sign saying “will you marry me.” And of course I’m freaking out. So after the whole freak out he puts the ring on and we take some more photos and then walk down the lighthouse and from behind the lighthouse my entire family and all of Ravi’s family come out with flowers and I’m again shocked to see everyone. And then we take more photos and everything calms down and Ravi and I take some his family walking around the island and on the Pier. Then he and I finally head back to my house and we walk in and my whole family and everyone is there and they’re like “surprise!” and they had decorated the house and had food and we had a small engagement party with everyone that’s close to us. It was absolutely the most perfect day of my life."

The Photographer's Favorite Moments:
"​My favorite moment was when she told me she was really convinced that he was never going to propose to her. That even as he walked ahead of her on the path to the lighthouse she was looking at his pockets to see if she saw a ring box bulge and she didn't. So this surprise proposal was exactly what is was suppose to be a ......TOTAL SURPRISE!"

Hey Florist Friends!!
Want to be featured in Vol 8 (May 2019)?

We're looking for bouquets that make a statement for an editorial we're working on for our next issue! 

We're all about inspiring our readers, so fresh designs are always welcomed! 

*Submit 1-3 professionally edited photographs of bouquets you have designed for a chance to be published in Vol 8. 
Please include the type of floral used, including any greenery. 

​Here in the South, every occasion is worth celebrating and sometimes we need to stick to a budget. Here are 5 tips to keep your next celebration on a budget, while still having fun! {Please keep in mind that these tips are not suggestions for weddings,
as those budgets are much different.}

•  Timing is truly everything! If you’re looking to cut back on food expenses, the perfect time for a day-time celebration is from 1:30 p.m. until 4:30 p.m; it’s after lunch and before dinner. Your guests won’t expect a full meal. If you’re having a night-time shindig, the best times are from 7:00 p.mm. until 10:00 p.m. of course this is more adult friendly, but it’s after dinner, so guests shouldn’t expect a full meal.

 

• Send digital invitations versus printing and mailing. By using social media and/or online resources such as E-vite, you can easily track RSVPs and save on design fees and postage.

 

• Start planning in advance. This will give you time to price shop on décor; that way you’re not running around last minute, potentially paying more.

 

• If it’s an adult party, create a  signature drink versus having to buy a variety of different liquors. This way, you’ll only have to purchase 1—2 types of alcohol. And of course, supply plenty of non-alcoholic drinks for your guests who don’t drink alcohol.

 
 

• Enlist your friends and family. If they offer, take them up on it, especially if they know how to cook well! And if party planning is their thing, by all means accept the help. In some cases, having more is better!

​It’s time for “one last fling before the ring!”  That’s right, it’s time to plan the Ultimate Bachelorette Party!  This is a great occasion to share a memorable evening or weekend with your besties, and let loose before the wedding.  Here are some ideas and tips to help you create an unforgettable soiree.

What is a “Bachelorette Party?”, you may ask.
The modern day bachelorette party was modeled after the ever popular bachelor party, as a way for a single woman to celebrate with her closest friends and family before her marriage.  This party is usually hosted by the ladies in the bridal party, but may be thrown by a close friend or relative, much like a bridal shower.   It is a great time for bonding, and general merriment.
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Check with the Bride first.  What would she do for a Klondike Bar?
Ask her what she envisions for her party.  Does she just want a wild night out, or a relaxing weekend with her nearest and dearest?  Does she have a location in mind?  She may want to go club-hopping, and to dance with tons of people.  She may want to go to a winery for a tasting, or a sip and paint party.   The bride may want to stay local in her hometown and have a great meal and a movie with her friends, or she may want to head to the nearest metropolitan area to catch a Broadway-worthy show.  Renting a vacation home in a place like Edisto Beach, South Carolina, or taking a riverboat cruise are also fun options.  Las Vegas is always a popular destination for bridal parties.

Are there any special requests or hard limits to the bachelorette fun?  Would the bride like to see an exotic dancer or sip a favorite alcoholic drink throughout the evening?  Does she enjoy games?  A fun scavenger hunt, with pre-planned clues and small gifts at several locations, could provide lots of excitement and photo opportunities.  Bachelorette Bingo or Pin the (insert item of choice here) on the body part of choice is always good for laughs.  Just remember to keep it tasteful, depending on the bride-to-be’s personality.   Also, remember that if there are guests that are under the legal drinking age, or simply do not indulge in adult beverages, to plan accordingly.   This includes having pre-arranged transportation, or designated drivers.  

​To Theme, or not to Theme?  That is the question.
Many times, the party has a theme, such as Spa Day, or “Pop, Fizz, Clink!”  Channeling our inner Mermaids, Unicorns, and Goddesses have been popular themes in recent years.  Group fitness classes are also fun, with lots of choices available.  Hot Yoga, Pilates, Spin Class, Bungee Cord and Fabric Aerial Classes, and yes, even Pole Dancing are all great options.

Does the bride love music?  A trip to Nashville would be a great theme, including cowboy boots, denim, rhinestones, and a visit to the Grand Ole Opry.  Or perhaps a jaunt over to New Orleans, to sample beignets, gumbo, and the famous French Quarter would be perfect.  If your bride is mad about the mouse, then slide on down to Orlando, to the Happiest Place on Earth – Disney World!  

Is the bride an avid traveler, or sports fanatic?  Or does she prefer to wander leisurely through bookstores and flea markets?  Does she enjoy shopping for pretty lingerie and accessories?  Why not book a hair and makeup team, and a talented photographer, and host a boudoir marathon?  Build the party around the bride’s interests and hobbies.  Sometimes a theme can be as simple as using the colors of the wedding, and carrying it through the décor of the bachelorette party, from the invitations, to the tableware.  Search a website like Pinterest for really cute and creative ideas.  Don’t forget to coordinate the guests’ attire, with fun t-shirts or accessories to announce to all that you are part of the Bride’s Tribe.  The bride should stand out among her crew, so add a great tiara and sash and you are ready to hit the town!   Be sure to provide awesome swag for everyone, including a hang-over relief kit!  There are so many options available, you can’t really go wrong in personalizing the celebration for the bride.

​Time is Money, or Divide and Conquer.
Just as planning a very detailed wedding takes time, so does planning a smaller celebration, like the bachelorette party.  The bachelorette party can take place anywhere from a few months to a week or two before the wedding.   The sooner that the date is selected for the party, the sooner you can put your ideas into motion.  Consider hiring an event planner to assist.  Create a guest list.  If the party is to be a surprise for the bride, consult with the other members of the bridal party and close friends, and decide on date, location, theme and overall budget for the party.  Divide the party planning tasks accordingly:  finding a venue for the party and making reservations, buying or making decorations, invitations and favors, planning activities or entertainment, ordering food and beverages, and transportation such as a limo, party bus, Uber or taxi.  Also consider hiring a photographer to play paparazzi for the evening.  They will capture the moments others may miss.  Total up the costs of everything, and divide equally.  Then collect the necessary amount of money from each guest to cover the bill, including tips.  The only person that should not pay for anything is, of course, the bride.  All she needs to do is enjoy spending time with her besties!

​Appetizers are the new dinner party! Years ago, a good dinner party in the South consisted of BBQ and good drinks! Now that we’re getting a little older, our we’ve made our dinner parties a little more sophisticated—BUT we still love our BBQs!
 
A fun –and delicious—way to incorporate appetizers into your dinner parties is by creating a charcuterie board.
 
What exactly is charcuterie?
 Charcuterie is a French word for any smoked, dry-cured or cooked meat.
{You had us at meat!}
You can add a variety of items that can be paid in many  different combinations. Talk about an explosion of flavor in your mouth! Combinations  usually include various ingredients that compliment the meats and cheeses for a fun do-it-yourself appetizer experience for your guests.

​· Select a variety of meat and cheese, meaning an assortment of mild, medium and bold flavors. Some people prefer softer, mild meats and cheeses, where other folks love big, bold flavors. Be sure you have options for both mild and bold flavors, as well as middle-of-the-road options.

· Add seasonal fruit to the mix. While the main event attraction of a charcuterie board should be the meat, it is always smart to include fresh in-season fruit to add sweetness to the salty and to change up the experience. If you want to get extra fancy, you can roast or grill fresh fruit.

· Jams or preserves: Include 1 or 2 jams or preserves for some added flavor and sweetness to balance out the dry and salty meat and cheese. Fig spread goes marvelously with many cheeses and meats, so I always like to include it. I also like to include apricot jam, but raspberry or grape jam works, too. Again, you can step this up by using homemade jams, but store-bought works great and chances are you already have several options in your pantry.

· Provide something briny to pair with the meat and cheese. Pickled vegetables, such as gherkins or pickles, olives, pickled jalapenos or pepperoncinis are great on charcuterie boards. They can be paired easily with the bold meats, such as salami or sopressata, and add a mouth-watering tang.

· Other spreads: You may also include any of your favorite spreads, such as stone ground mustard, tapenade, pate, hummus, and/or white bean dip. These spreads are great for smearing on sliced baguette for stacking meat and cheese on top.

The “Grand Board” at City Pork in Baton Rouge, Louisiana is mainly made up of St. Andre Triple Cream Brie, Gruyere, Roquefort, Gouda, Lonza, Smoked Duck, Chicken Liver Paté, Hog’s Head Cheese, and Truffle Sausage. 

Photo Credits: Rachel Erin Photography | City Pork, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
​ Want to see this in print? It's featured in our Special Edition: The Food & Drink Issue.

​James and Michelle met in college.  He was the shy guy who caught the eye of many ladies.  Through a mutual friend he met Michelle and she caught his eye.  It was love at first sight and they haven't taken their eyes off of each other since.  He is the classic southern gentleman and she is the epitome of a modern southern belle who brings out the best in him.  The two dated throughout college and their relationship grew as they supported and helped each other meet their own personal goals.  After graduation and as James began to secure things for the future, he finally felt the time was right.  James asked Michelle to go with him to visit the Old Sheldon Church ruins.  One of their favorite things to do is visit new places and take little weekend trips so of course, she agreed.  James had a planner create a picnic with a little bohemian flare and asked along a photographer to capture their time together at the ruins.  They walked and danced around the ruins.  They enjoyed fresh fruit and sharing love and laughter while talking about the blessings they have been given in this life.  As they sat on the blanket sharing their love for each other, James slipped a ring on her finger and asked her to share forever.  Of course, she said yes!  What else is there to say when you are real sweet on your sweetheart?  

Vendors:
Venue: Old Sheldon Church Ruins , Yemassee, SC
Planner and Stylist:  Real Memory Designs by Sharon 
Announcements:  Adaria Designs by ahd  
Photographer:  Torianna Brooke Photography and Cinema  

Hawaii has been a sought after destination for decades for honeymooners.  There is good reason as to why.  Hawaii offers so many things for couples, especially honeymooners.  There are mountains, beaches, city life, history, culture,ambiance, food and so much more.  Here are 3 top reasons why Hawaii is an excellent destination for honeymooners.

1.  The Resorts.  There are resort styles that will fit any couples budget and style.  From quaint boutique resorts to high rise hotels to lavish beach resorts.  Honeymooners can experience the type of rooms they want for their honeymoon.  A variety of choices gives them options. 

2. Island Options.  There are several islands that make up Hawaii and each island is unique and has its own personalities.  You have islands that are filled with adventure, an island for the more laid back, an island for those that want to be isolated and an island for those that crave the hustle and bustle of city life.  The beauty of it is you can do more than one island in a trip giving you multiple experiences for your honeymoon.

3. Romance.  Romance is a priority in honeymooning.  Hawaii offers so many romantic options.  The islands are filled with flowers, views, food, hula dancing, amazing sunsets, breathtaking sunrises.  There are thousands of excursions and activities for couples to take part in for fun and romance.

Hawaii is an excellent honeymoon choice.  In the upcoming blogs I will feature each island and what they have to offer so stay tuned! 

The age old question: what's the difference between escort cards and place cards?
​While both tell each guest where they will be sitting at a reception, there is a notable difference. 

What is an escort card at a wedding?
Escort cards are a little more informal. They will tell yours guests which table to sit at, but not which seat to sit in, allowing your guest to sit where they prefer at their assigned table. Some couples do, however, choose to have both an escort card and a place card, but it is not necessary if you choose to do an escort card only. 

So, what is a place card?
Place cards are more detailed. They will tell your guests which table and seat to sit in. These are for more formal wedding receptions where the wedding couple may be having a seated dinner. This will help the caterer determine who gets the chicken, beef, fish, etc. dish (sometimes these will have a slight variation such as a dot or color to signal to the caterer on who gets what to help distribute meals).

Whatever you choose, have fun and get creative when designing a way to display your cards! 

Some of the best moments in life are created around a table with good food and good company. Create a tablescape that is warm and inviting to your guests that make them feel as if they were at home. 

THE MINIMALIST 
When designing your tablescape, keep your meal in mind. If you want your food to shine, keep your tablescape simple. 

Add a few layers and texture to a minimal tablescape to ensure a warm and inviting table. 

THE FARMHOUSE
The farmhouse table is warm and inviting to all! It's a table where family and friends can gather for laughter and good food. 

Your farmhouse tablescape can be simple, elaborate, full of lush floral, layered with textures, and varying elements or a mix of it all! 

Photo Credits:
Photographer: Double Windsor Photography
China, Flatware, Glassware: The Prissy Plate Company
Vintage Rentals: The Vintage Rental Co
Floral: The Botanical Studios
Venue: Atlanta History Center - Swan House & Smith Family Farm
Styling: Blush Pink Weddings
Catering: Sun in My Belly
Hair & Makeup: B. Young Studio + Spa
Model: Hannah Lee Yoder

After much discussion and debate, Southern Celebrations Magazine, is making a move to an annual print publication; where our contributors, sponsors, and advertisers who are featured in print can get the maximum exposure all year long! 

Vol 7 will still be launched in May 2018. Moving forward with Volume 8 being launched in October 2019 (I know, I know; that's such a long time away) but it will be SO worth it! 

So, where does that leave SouthernCelebrationsMag.com? 
We'll keep featuring Real Weddings, Celebrations, and Styled Inspirations like we have been! Nothing here changes, if anything, we'll actually be updating our website more often to keep up with the demands of our online community! 

Want to advertise in Volume 7? Request our Media Kit. 

The weather is warming up here in the South and Spring wedding season is in full bloom! Many couples get their inspiration for their celebrations from the colors of Spring itself. 

These 10 Real Weddings are full of Spring inspiration!

Fresh flowers! What else says Spring like a hanging floral backdrop for your cake table. 

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

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​The pops of red in this beautiful diy wedding is what hooked us on Shelby & Brandon's wedding! From the shoes to guys' socks, the color is beautifully balanced with the greys, even the pops of red in the bouquets are gorgeous!

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

A simple ceremony arbor adorned with coral and peachy hues for a late-Spring wedding. 

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Peonies, babys breath, and cascading greens are just some of the few floral elements that make up this fun, Spring bouquet. 

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Bridals in a field of flowers! There's no way you could pull off such a beautiful shot in Winter! This late-Spring wedding in North Carolina is super dreamy! 

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

How fun are these?! Upside down umbrellas filled with flowers and greenery! 

​​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

The soft hues in this wedding cake that Baking on the Bayou designed is perfect for this Spring wedding  New Orleans.

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

A gorgeous floral crown is the perfect accessory for this Texas bride! 

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

The soft hues of lilac and lavender are what Spring weddings are made of!

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Blush and soft hues, green grass, and lots of sunshine! This Georgia wedding is full of Southern charm that's perfect for a Spring celebration!

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Choosing a cover for a new issue is never an easy task! Sometimes we wish that we could have 5 different covers, but in reality we can't!  What we have done though, is narrow down our choices; and even narrowing them down was a hard decision! 
In no particular order, we have our final Vol 7 cover choices below! 
​While this isn't a contest, we'd still love to know which one is your favorite cover choice!
​The Vol 7 cover choice won't be announced until we open pre-sales in April. We'll also be choosing one of these for a Fall cover change for Vol 7!
{Scroll down to pick which is your favorite.}

 Bear Claw Vineyards & Winery, Inc. | Planning + Design: Cathy Nugent / A Hosting Home | Custom Table + Ceremony Backdrop: A Hosting Home  | Photography: Shannon Ford Photography | Cake: Cake Envy | China + Flatware + Napkins: The Prissy Plate Company | Dress: Wedding Angels Bridal Boutique | Tuxedo: Savvi Formalwear – Mall of GA  | Stationary: Paper Made Lovely | Florist: Bantam & Bloom | MUA: Vigilante Cosmetics | Macrame Piece: MyMacramania | Ring and Bridal Jewelry: Misayo House | Models: Hope + Justin

​ Kandi Daniel Studios | Paper Flowers: Bess of 622 Press | Cookies/Cake: Not As Famous Cookie Company | Rentals: The Vintage Rental Company | Styling: Blush Pink Weddings 

​Double Windsor Photography | Wedding Angels Bridal Boutique | The Botanical Studio | Atlanta History Center | Cassie Young | B. Young Beauty Studio + Spa 

​Danielle Brown Photography & Film | Paper Flowers: Bess of 622 Press | Cookies/Cake: Not As Famous Cookie Company | Rentals: The Vintage Rental Company | Styling: Blush Pink Weddings | B. Young Beauty Studio + Spa ​

"I love mushrooms, and I think seafood is a perfect stuffing for them. They are small but oh so full of flavor... 
perfect for an appetizer!
Most restaurants around the New Orleans area have these on the menu as an appetizer.
They've always been a favorite of mine, so it was only natural for me to make my own at home! " - Joy Monnerjahn

With over 70 entries, our first Creative Challenge contest was a huge success and a little overwhelming making a decision! So much so, that we just couldn't narrow down our print winner to just one group of Creatives, we actually chose two groups of Creatives to have their work featured in Vol 7 and one group to be featured online (which the two print choices will also be featured in our online Inspiration gallery as well). 

The main part of the challenge was that creatives had to use at least one or more of Pantone's Spring 2018 Top Colors. 

We truly wish we could feature all of the amazing entries that we received, as they were all fantastic! 
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Say hello to our Creative Challenge Winners:

Volume 7's issue will be distributed to registered brides at our October Bridal Show in Natchez, Mississippi; a popular destination for weddings in the South!

​You are engaged!! Can you believe it?? So what now? Where do you start after you have made it Social Media official? Who, What, Where,  When and How?
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First you have to decide on date, budget, vendors, venue………here are a few tips on making appointments with vendors. They will be the first people you will share your excitement with outside of your friends and family.
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After you have done all of your internet searches and narrowed it down to about 3-4 (or less) of each.  You may have received package information and prices already but, you will most certainly want to meet these wonderful people you have been in contact with. Make sure you have a notebook, datebook, calendar or a program that will track your appointments.
When you call, email, text or contact them through a website or social media, first thing to do is get the name of the person you are speaking with if they have not already offered this information.   
Be direct with your request:  “I would like to set a time for a consultation about flowers, cake, photography etc. “When you say “consultation” they know that you want to sit down and discuss details not just have a walk through.  It will also help them to schedule enough time with you to not rush through the details. Plan to spend at least an hour with each vendor. Always leave extra time for traffic and travel time in between.
Then add what day and time is best for you or a few. That way there is less back and forth on what times are available. Please keep in mind that Friday and Saturday are the busiest times for wedding vendors. Try to find a day that you are off during the week or after work that you are available. Not to say that Fridays and Saturdays are out of the question. Understand that you will more than likely be getting married on one of those days. Wouldn’t you want your vendors to give all of their attention to you on your day?  
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So, here is an example of what your appointment information can look like:
Date:  Tuesday March 12, 2018  Time: 2:00-3:00
Vendor Name:  ABC Company Phone Number: 888-888-8888
Contact Name:  Sally Jones Personal contact number: 888-888-8888
Address: 123 Main Street,  Perfect Town, Perfect State   (for GPS)
Directions:

​Always ask for the direct number where the person you will be meeting with can be reached on the day of the appointment. Just in case you are running late or need to reschedule. Or if by chance you show up and no one is there goodness knows things happen!
Get the address for your GPS and ask for directions just in case it is hard to find or you are not familiar with the area. They will know about short cuts and road closure that your GPS might not.
So what happens if on the day you are not able to make the appointment? Maybe you are sick and need to reschedule.  ALWAYS contact the contact person as soon as you know. This is just the right thing to do. They will be glad to help you reschedule.  So what happens if you think that you have decided on your vendor before you have meet with them all ??? How do you know if you haven’t met them all? Don’t be pressured into booking until you have explored all the options you have chosen. You were interested in the 3-4(or less) you made appointments with for a reason.  However, if you have, PLEASE contact the other vendors and cancel your appointments. This person has set aside time from their day to meet with you, sometimes they have made arrangements with a baby sitter for instance or arranged their day around meeting you at the shop or venue. Not all wedding vendors are a 9-5 store front. They have families and lives too so as a courtesy to them always contact them as soon as you can.

Now the hard part deciding………I didn’t say that would be easy. My best advice to you is go with your gut, how did the person make you feel? Were you comfortable in the space? Did you feel as though they had your best interest at heart? Did they like your ideas and offer options? It’s not always about price. Your wedding day is all about feelings right? LOVE is an awesome feeling that you want to share. So do your vendors LOVE what they do? If they do you will feel it!

Happy Planning!
Mrs. J
(Southern Celebrations Magazine's In-house Event Planning Expert)

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Who knew that a country with the word "ice" in it's name could be such a hot destination? Sure it's winter, so the days are short - but that makes conditions ideal for the possibility of viewing the Northern Lights! 

More than 200 volcanoes and numerous glaciers form the country's landscape. It's a frozen land that's always letting off steam. Its U-shaped valleys, jagged lava fields, monstrous ice caps, hot springs and geysers have carved a rugged, bizarre landscape you won't see anywhere else on Earth. But you don't need the fortitude of a Viking to enjoy Iceland. In fact, you can experience many of its extremes in relative comfort.

Iceland appeals to travelers who enjoy outdoor activities, rugged scenery, brisk weather and a relaxing, invigorating vacation (anyone who enjoys Alaska would be a prime candidate). The capital, Reykjavik, offers an array of overnight accommodations, from luxury hotels to youth hostels. There is an abundance of cafes and bistros in addition to fine-dining establishments. Reykjavik's nightlife is an all-night adventure, with some pubs and clubs staying open until the wee hours of the night. 

Among Iceland's main attractions are hiking, fishing, river rafting, geysers, horse trekking, whale-watching, camping, skiing, snowmobiling, Viking ruins, puffin-watching, volcanoes, lava fields, the Midnight Sun, northern lights, hot springs, museums, glaciers and waterfalls.

The average temperature in Reykjavík is around 33-35°F in wintertime and around 54°F in summer. The temperature in Reykjavík can drop down to 14°F in winter, or go up to 50°F, and during summertime it can drop down to around 44°C and go up to 77°F
Reykjavík is in the south part of the country, and the further north you go there is a greater difference in the temperature.
Summer time is the high season and when most people come to Iceland. The weather is milder, the days are longer and it's truly a spectacular time to visit Iceland. If you're coming to Iceland for the first time, we would definitely recommend coming in the summer time.
Some attractions are only available during winter time, such as the elusive Northern Lights and spectacular ice caves in one of Iceland's many glaciers
3 things that make this place a romantic destination for honeymooners:
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Romantic adventure – discovering a new place, glaciers, hiking, ice caves, northern lights
 
Blue lagoon –one of the 25 wonders of the world geotheromal sea waterlagoon
 
Cooler/cold weather means snuggling

Planning a trip to Iceland involves many details and using a travel professional for a trip like this for such a special occation is highly recommended.

'Tis the season for crawfish boils here in south Louisiana! And boy do we have something delicious to share with you that Chef Lisa Boudreaux-Lecoq, owner of The Gilded Artichoke Catering Co, has created! 

​​Crawfish Boil Rolls
This Cajun twist on a New England classic, the lobster roll, is an easy and fast way to use leftovers from a southern crawfish boil. Serve in a roll or if entertaining with small bites, serve on a cracker as a dip!

Tips For A Successful Destination Wedding 

Anything is possible, and everything goes, when you plan a destination wedding. That’s why so many couples leave home in search of the world’s most beautiful places where they can tie the knot.

If getting hitched in an exotic location sounds like your perfect day, staying organized will streamline the planning process. So even though destination weddings can be a lot of work, with strong planning and a bit of determination, you can have the day you've always dreamt of. 

To help you get started, we’ve compiled a handy destination wedding checklist. This tool will help you maintain your sanity along the way, so only your future mother in law will be remembered for going nuts. 

First Off: Give Yourself Extra Time To Plan

Destination weddings are more challenging to plan than local weddings, so it’s a good idea to give yourself some extra time to actually nail down all of the details. While you may be able to plan a local wedding in six months, consider giving yourself at least a full year or more to plan a destination wedding.

12 Months Out

1. Set Your Budget 
Set your budget so you’ll know how much you can comfortably spend to make your ideal wedding come to life. In doing so, you’ll also be able to figure out what destinations you can afford. After all, some destinations are pricier than others.   
Once you’ve set the budget, you and your spouse can decide on your top three priorities. Maybe it's the number of guests, maybe it's the gown, and maybe it's the food. The point is that, once you have your priorities in order, it will be easier to keep your budget in line.
When planning international destination weddings, a lot of couples make the mistake of failing to factor in currency exchange rates. Even though these exchange rates change constantly and will likely be different by the time you have to pay your venue and vendors, use an accurate exchange rate calculator to get an estimate of how your money will convert and whether or not the conversion will work in your favor. 
Pro tip: If you use https://www.ofx.com/ to make your international wedding payments, you can use a Limit Order to lock in an exchange rate for up to 12 months, so you’ll never get sticker shock if the exchange rates fluctuate while you’re planning.
2. Compare Visa Requirements 
Lots of countries have relaxed their visa permissions in order to cash in on revenue from destination weddings, but visas are a factor you’ll want to check in every destination you’re considering. Keep in mind that if you’re planning on marrying someone of a different nationality and eventually living in the country where you’re getting married, the requirements may be different than those that usually apply to destination weddings. It’s always wise to contact the consulate, if you’re unsure.
3. Research, Research, Research…and Travel!
If you’re planning a destination wedding, you may already have a destination or two in mind. For example, if you met in Montreal, you might be ready to tie the knot there too. Or if you love vacationing together in a tropical location, Hawaii might on your radar. 
About a year before your big day, research not only your preferred destination and its wedding venues, but also the local vendors and planners that are available. Start contacting them to get quotes and to figure out if that destination is feasible in terms of your budget.
Once you’ve found a beautiful destination and venue online, it’s time to travel. Seeing a venue in person and speaking with the planner face-to-face will give you a whole new perspective on whether or not you’re headed in the right direction. 
After all, a venue can be made to look modern, clean, and beautiful online, but when you see it in person, it might be a completely different story. So rather than booking blindly, based upon what you see online, take a vacation to meet with the right people before signing on the dotted line. 

10 Months Out

1. Book Your Vendors and Officiant
After doing your research into local vendors at the destination of your choice, you can list out their pros and cons and decide which ones you want to book. As well as the cake, flowers, music and catering, you may want to incorporate some traditions native to the locale where you’re tying the knot. At the same time, if you want to incorporate important family traditions from back, it may be more difficult to do so in an exotic island locale. Start your research early, so you know what you can reasonably expect.
Like all good things, the best vendors will book up quickly, especially if they work on a lot of weddings throughout the year, so nail them down as soon as possible. Don’t forget to choose an officiant to conduct the ceremony. 
About 10 months before your wedding, sign contracts with your vendors, such as your photographer, videographer, officiant, and baker. Some hotels provide wedding packages where all the details are included, which can really simplify your planning. But no matter which vendors or providers you choose, it’s worth asking about payment options. Paying by credit cards may incur substantial foreign transaction fees. If you can pay by bank-to-bank transfer (international wire), using a provider like OFX might save you enough cover the cost of the cake.
2. Get Your Bridal Party Together 
Think about the people in your life that you hope will be a special part of your big day and start organising your bridal party, from your best man and maid of honor, to your ring bearer and flower girl. Keep in mind that a destination wedding can be prohibitively costly for a number of your guests, relatives and dear friends, so it’s important to give your favorites plenty of time to plan and budget for the event, if you’re expecting them to be there.

8 Months Out

1. Send Out Save-the-Dates
Save-the-dates aren’t always necessary, but when you’re planning a destination wedding that will require guests take time off from work and travel to be a part of your day, it’s best to let them know well in advance. Send out your save-the-dates after you’ve set your wedding date and confirmed the venue. A good rule of thumb is to send these announcements at least eight months before your wedding.By this time, you should have your hotel room booked and your transportation sorted as well, so you can be confident in letting your guests know about your upcoming event.
2. Shop for Your Gown 
You may have already started looking at bridal gowns, but now is the time to head to local bridal salons, try on some gowns, and make a final decision. It could take a few weeks to get your gown in, and then you might need to have it altered, so give yourself some extra time to say yes to the dress.
3. Build Your Wedding Website
For a destination wedding, a website is particularly helpful, so you don’t have to field the same question from countless guests. Guests will want to know about flights, hotel rooms, transport, dress codes, and a website is a great place to share the story of why you chose your special locale. It’s also a great way to share suggestions for activities in the days before and after your event.

4-6 Months Out

1.  Send Out Your Invitations 
Once everyone is aware of your plans, you can then send your official invitations with even more detailed information roughly 4-6 months before your big day. You may want to include an additional insert to provide your guests with information on the hotel where they can stay, direct them to your website, and discuss any group arrangements you’ve made with an airline. This will give your guests plenty of time to RSVP, book their hotel room, and plan additional holidaying side trips.
2. Take Care of the Smaller Details
Phew, you’ve come this far, and you’ve nailed down all of the major details! But there are still a few other wedding details that you’ll need to take care of, such as:

• Purchasing or renting your groom’s tuxedo.
• Finding the perfect wedding shoes and accessories, if you haven’t done so already.
• Planning your bridal shower and your bachelor and bachelorette parties.
• Choosing your bridal party’s tuxedos and gowns .

It’s also a good idea to come up with a specific schedule of activities that your guests can enjoy together once they arrive at the destination. You can even plan to give each guest a goodie bag filled with welcome gifts to show your appreciation to them for traveling to your wedding.

1-3 Months Out

Expect the unexpected. Save this time for troubleshooting last minute inquiries and cancellations. After signing contracts with your wedding venue and vendors, you’ll likely be required to give a deposit, make payments along the way, and maybe even provide the balance on the day of your ceremony and reception if you don’t have to pay the full amount in advance. How you pay can make a big difference in how much you end up paying, so it’s worth a bit of research to understand your options. Now is also the time to apply for your marriage license—the last step in preparation for your new life together! 

A Few Days Before Your Wedding

You’ve done it. Enjoy the fruits of all your hard work. Take a deep breath, take it all in, and remember that the focus of the day is about love. Even if the cake falls on the floor or the best man spills red wine all over your dress, it all just adds to the romance of the story you’ll tell for years to come. To find out more, view our comprehensive guide to getting married abroad. 

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​Most brides, when coming up with the colors and relative theme of their wedding, forget to take into consideration, the already established ambiance of their selected venue. This is why one of the first steps any bride should do after announcing their engagement is to visit and select their venue.
Why?
Not only will choosing your venue set the wedding date, but it will also set the tone for your color scheme.
If a bride is thinking that she wants a rustic theme with neutral colors, a hotel venue wouldn’t necessarily be the best location for that theme. If the bride is thinking eclectic and vivid colors, maybe a church wouldn’t necessarily be the best location.  For example: if a bride wants a spring themed wedding with plums, pinks, purples, and silvers, but the venue has walls that are a bright vivid burgundy, with dark wood and gold trim, tables that are dark cherry and gold and burgundy chairs;  this would not work with her color scheme that she had in mind. 

​Keep in mind that older churches tend to have older style carpet and decor. So if the church has vivid red carpet and the bridesmaids dresses are an emerald green, the wedding can end up looking Christmas themed in the middle of June. 

Before you set your date, check out the venue first and make sure that particular venue and its decor will work with your color scheme.  It can already be an overwhelming process to pick a venue,  but it’s still super important that a bride takes the venue's decor  into consideration when she's planning.

Remember:
If the venue is neutral, you are not limited with your color scheme.
​If the venue is anything outside of a neutral background, be selective. 

1. Do Not leave the very next day after your wedding.

This is for those of you that are planning a honeymoon.  Most couples are so excited to go they want to leave the very next day on the first flight out.  This is usually a 6 am flight.  This means you have to be at the airport for 4 am.  This means waking up around 3 am.  You get the picture. You have a late night and then a very very early morning. I know how excited couples are to go as soon as possible but traveling can be exhausting.  You do not want to arrive at your paradise completely drained.  If there are unexpected delays the day gets even longer and you get even more tired and cranky.   So relax.  Spend the first night at a hotel in a nearby city.  Sleep in, order room service and leave the following day.  You’ll be rested and in a much better mood to travel.  You’ll arrive at your destination refreshed and ready for any and all honeymoon festivities.
 
      2. Stay focused on the marriage and not the wedding.
This make the honeymoon even better than you can imagine, because this is when you START the marriage.  The moment the ring is on the finger the real planning starts.  The bride puts in endless hours of shopping, attending bridal shows, planning, discussing, researching, interviewing , cake sampling, phone calls, pintresting (is that a word?), Facebooking (another new word for urban dictionary).  Some young ladies even start a dieting and working out just so everything will be just perfect for the wedding and the reception after.  So hours upon hours, day after day, month after month the time is filled with the planning of the wedding.  The day arrives, anticipation has built up, energy is building to that moment.  The moment when she walks down the aisle and he sees her.  They say “I do”.   They kiss.  The celebration starts with family and friends for a couple of hours after.  Then the wedding is over.
According to Bride magazine most engagements and the planning of the wedding last for 18 months.  That is a considerable amount of time spent in planning a wedding.  Remember this is also a time to focus on each other and the upcoming marriage, not the upcoming wedding.  The wedding is one day.  The marriage is forever, right?
Enjoy the engagement.  By doing this this keeps things light and not all business for the wedding.  Then when it is time for the honeymoon you know you can really play laugh and have fun and not wonder what to talk about since the wedding planning is all over.  One tip I give to engaged couples is at least 1 night a week there should be no talk of the wedding.  Only speak to each other about the future together.  Share your hopes, dreams and visions that you have as a couple.
 
       3. Have an open mind
This is a new experience for both of you as husband and wife.  Maybe you have traveled together as a couple, however this is the first time traveling together as a married couple.  This trip may also be your first time together in a new country.  You want your honeymoon to memorable in a good way.  Keeping an open mind about things that may happen unexpectedly will keep things humorous and avoid unhappy feelings and memories.  For example you may be expecting nice long walks on a beautiful sandy beach.  Laying out on the beach and soaking up the sun.  You arrive and see the beach is filled with seaweed!  Ahhh… you can’t walk on the beach, the smell is yucky.  So what do you do?  Pout?  Get mad?  Blame the resort?  The best thing to do is to keep an open mind.  Play at the pool, walk in the gardens, have a “do it yourself couples” seaweed wrap – haha! Make the most of the situations and you will have more “fun” on your honeymoon and more memories to cherish.
 
        4. Unplug – for real!
No cell phones, no laptops, no tablets.  Change your profile picture to DO NOT DISTURB!  Couples are allowing themselves to be in the present moment with each other while spending time on their honeymoon.  Enjoying each other’s company as well as be completely aware of their surroundings brings relationships to another level.  By having real conversations with each other, meeting new people, reading real books while relaxing at the beach or by the pool the reality of the real world seems to fade away.  You become more relaxed, you feel a freedom that you may have not felt in a long time as an individual and as a person.  This freedom allows you to grow as a person and a couple by being able to allow thoughts and feelings to surfaces with that little ding constantly going off with some sort of notification to distract you.
 
 
        5. Plan a special honeymoon or a vacation gift for each other
The gifts can be simple or extravagant.  The point of the gift is to put thoughtfulness into the gift for each other.  You can forgo the wedding gift and wait until the honeymoon.  I had one bride do a photo shoot of herself in all of her lingerie that she received at her lingerie shower.  She made a little album for her husband and gave it to him on their honeymoon.  He loved it!!!  I’ve had grooms plan surprise candlelight dinners and the butler or server bring a covered dish and when the lid was lifted a beautiful bracelet was on the plate.  There are lots of fun easy things you can do and have set up before you leave for your honeymoon or romantic trip for each other.
 
           6.  The new tradition-the honeymoon letter
You know the old tradition of saving the top tier of your cake and freezing it for your 1 year anniversary.  I suggest that couples add to this tradition.  I suggest couples actually take a little time to themselves on the honeymoon write a letter to each other.  Make fun, make it serious , just make it genuine, make it about your real and authentic feelings.  Seal them up in an envelope and stick it in the freezer with the cake when you get home.  1 year later as you are toasting and enjoying the cake read the letters.   This can be a very special moment and continue to bring you closer.  You can also do this if this is your babymoon… read the letters when baby turns 1 (in between the diaper changing) and if this is an anniversary vacation (aka honeyversary)  then read them on the next anniversary maybe at your next  stop in paradise!
 
        7. Hire a travel professional
Talk with a Travel Professional.  While you have done your research online remember the internet is for looking the travel agent is for booking.  Travel professionals have knowledge and expert advice on destinations and resorts.  Even though you may find something that “looks great online” a travel professional will give you an unbiased opinion on the resorts and destinations.  They are working for you and want to insure that you get the best value and experience.   Travel professionals will make the planning process so much easier for you and will offer you peace of mind while traveling.

I hope you enjoy these 7 tips and that your honeymoon will sizzle!

​You spend countless hours pinning cakes on Pinterest, flipping through bridal magazines, and scrolling through wedding blogs; but you have no idea what to actually ask your cake designer! We've came up with a list of quick questions to ask your cake designer, once you've narrowed down your choices:

Of course, there are a ton more questions that you should be asking your cake designer, but we wanted to give you a good starting point. Just remember to do your research, read reviews, use a PROFESSIONAL (you can find some awesome ones here), and make sure they have a contract. If they don't offer a contract, move on to the next cake designer. 

​We're looking for talented, established Creatives to join our Family as a guest blogger!

Here at Southern Celebrations Magazine, we strive to provide our readers with meaningful & inspirational content; therefore we've been a little busier than normal in creating awesome content for our next two print issues; our special edition, The Food & Drink Issue (launches end of February) and Volume 7 (launches in May). 

With that being said, it's time to also expand our Blog section. 

On average, we receive 17,000 - 20,000 weekly views to SouthernCelebrationsMag.com. (Check out that real time screenshot!) In order to keep up with the demand of our readers both in print and online, we need to expand our blogging family!

We are looking to fill 3 guest blogger spots. You will be provided with access to the blog section of our website, after a 90 day trial period. 

​What we're looking for:
-Creative Entrepreneurs who are eager to not only share their knowledge about their trade, but who are eager to Market their own business as well! 
-You must have outstanding written communication, no slang use please! 
-You must be an established business owner, having owned your business for 2+ years. 
-You must write a guest blog once a week.

What we're NOT looking for:
-Someone who wants to use our platform for politically fueled content (this is not the space for that).
-Someone who is not passionate about Southern Celebrations Magazine. 
-Someone who is not passionate about weddings, celebrations, events, and the South! 


Categories We Are Recruiting For:
-Event/Wedding Planniners
-Photographers
-Fashion Enthusiasts
-We are also open to other Creative Business Owners, just let us know what you do!

Compensation:
You have the option to contribute once a week for 6 months or once a week for the entire year. Compensation is as follows: