Parents; 
We want to know, if you have multiple children, how do you handle sibling rivalry? 

Let's face it, not every child will get along with their sibling. They're going to argue and fight and nit pick with each other and most times, enough is enough! 

By using the form below, tell us how you handle sibling rivalry in your house. Please include how many children you have and their ages. Your answers will be published in our Family Edition that will launch May 2019. We will only include your first name and last name initial. 

Last year, I introduced Special Editions into the Southern Celebrations Magazine
family with our Food & Drink issue. This year, I'm ecstatic to bring you a Family Edition; covering editorials from pregnancy & parenting to mom & dad life, and food & lifestyles! When I started Southern Celebrations nearly 5 years ago, my goal was to inspire the South with inspirational editorials about all of life's occasions, just not weddings and boy do we love a good celebration! Set to launch in May 2019, we'll be accepting print submissions (non-wedding related) through April 2, 2019. 

Everyone wants to know the secrets to a long-lasting marriage or relationship; we all yearn for a love so deep and meaningful. 

​Sometimes, there are no real secrets. A long-lasting marriage takes hard work and effort from both individuals. There is no 50-50; you're either 100% committed or you're not. 

But how can you maintain some spark after so many years? How can you and your partner still be in love with each other for so long?

It's not easy! We interviewed several couples who have been married for over 30 years and they all had the same common advice about their many years of marriage. 

1. COMMUNICATION
I know, you hear it all of the time, but communicating with your partner truly is the number one tip when it comes to a lasting relationship. Discuss your feelings, your goals, talk about your emotions, talk about your finances........ If you can't discuss the small but important things in the beginning of your relationship, what makes you think that 15 years down the road the line of communication is still going to be open?

2. DON'T SETTLE
For the sake of everything you love, don't settle! I strongly believe in the sanctity of marriage, so for me, there is only one shot at this! If you don't have butterflies in your stomach when you've been a part for a long time, if you don't get goosebumps and if the hair on your arms doesn't stand up when they get near you, if you don't tremble when they lean in to embrace you, if they're not your best friend, or your lover; then don't ever settle. 

3. BE OPEN AND WILLING TO CHANGE
Time changes things, situations change. Couples in long-lasting relationships adapt to change in their environment or situations together. You are on a journey together, not alone.  More importantly, don't ever go in to a relationship expecting your partner to change. You either love them for who they are or you don't. Don't love them the way you think you could change them to be. 

4. IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN, PUT YOUR PARTNER FIRST
This can be a really hard thing to accept. It's easy to get lost in the blur of putting your kids first, especially when they are young. Remember that it was just the two of you before your children came along and when they're all grown up and out of the house, it'll be just the two of you again. Don't wake up 20 or 30 years from now asking where your life went.

5. BE INTIMATE
Every happy couple knows that maintaining intimacy is a key element in a long-lasting relationship! Make love to your partner, have toe curling sex, and long, deep kisses; and we're not talking once a month either or only on special occasions! Keep your flame going by creating the spark. As we get older, sometimes that drive diminishes and other problems arise, but that doesn't mean the intimacy has to stop. There are other ways to be intimate without physically having sex. 

6. RESPECT EACH OTHER
This goes without saying, don't ever disrespect each other; no matter how many disagreements, arguments, or trivial fights you may have. Without mutual respect for one another it is impossible for a relationship to work. 

7. MAKE TIME FOR YOUR PARTNER
 Make it a priority to make time with your partner. Don't make excuses on why it's been years since the two of you went on a date. YES! Date your spouse! Take them out to eat, take them to the movies, go on a bike ride together. It's easy to get wrapped up in your career in the early years (trust me, I know), but remember that your success in your career can wait, your marriage and family cannot. 

8. BE COMMITTED
Commitment is the foundation of stability on which long-lasting marriages are built. Be 100% committed, 100% of the time. 

9. APOLOGIZE
Don't hold a grudge in your marriage. People are not perfect, we make mistakes. Forgive each other. Be willing to let go and move forward with the person that you fell in love with so many years ago and whom you still love today. Accept your differences. A simple, "I'm sorry" can go a long way. 

10.UNITY
A marriage is a team, you are united as one. You deal with adversity together. You deal with crisis together. You embrace the good times together. Don't let other people drive themselves between you. They are not a part of your team. Your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc are NOT a part of your team, your family yes, but your team consists of just you and your partner. Even with good intentions, those outside of your team can cause stress and turmoil within your marriage. Depend on each other only for solutions, not those outside of your team. 

Infographic Credit: Loyes Diammonds

​This August, Charleston’s newest venue in the heart of the Historic District, Merchants Hall, opened its doors for its first-ever public event. The Charleston community gave a warm welcome to this brand-new venue! 

Charleston's top caterers Salthouse Catering, Duvall Catering & Events, Tristan Events & Catering showed off their chops and served delicious Lowcountry-themed cuisine, while Spike by Snyder served up local beers and an assortment of wines. Loluma styled the event to perfection, going with a rustic chic theme. Pictured below, the crowd favorites were Duvall’s Pimento Cheese Fritters, Salthouse’s Smoked Pork Shank with Hoppin’ John Roasted Carrots & Molasses Pot Licker and Tristan’s Coconut Cake Truffles and Caramel Milk Chocolate Tarts with Sea Salt.

It was a spectacular public debut for Merchants Hall! Merchants Hall provides a chic canvas for weddings and events in the Holy City. This circa 1856 building features exposed brick, wood columns, crystal chandeliers and views of City Market.

VENDORS:
Venue: Merchants Hall 
Photographer: Kate Dye Photography 
Caterers: Duvall Catering & Events , Tristan Events & Catering, and Salthouse Catering 
Drinks: Spike By Snyder 
Rentals: Snyder Events
Event Designer: Loluma 

Wedding favors for guests are made to be small tokens of appreciation for attending the wedding and they also serve as souvenirs from the wedding as well. Most couples want to be sure that people remember their special day, so they give out favors that are meaningful as their expression of appreciation. However, some wedding favors can become expensive as your guest list grows. Below, are DIY trendy wedding favors that will be a hit with your guest and save you money. 

It's no surprise that we love food in the south and sometimes we just want to have a good burger and fries to celebrate life's occasions at home. 

Because of our busy lives, it's easier to have a small gathering at home versus meeting at a local diner.  Cook up our angus burger with homemade sweet potato fries and our sweet, heat aioli (recipe below--you'll definitely want to try it out! We slapped it on our buns and dipped our fries in it!!).  

Although our burgers are pan-fried, they'd taste even better on the grill ;-)

​Cutting board crafted by Highland Fence Co.

It goes without saying that we cannot control everything in life. Of course, we all want our celebrations to be perfect; whether it's our child's first birthday, our baby shower, or our wedding day. 

We've obsessed over details for months (and sometimes years depending on the occasion). It's only natural that we would want everything to be perfect. 




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Here's a few tips that we've come up with to help you to NOT stress over the small things:

• Create a budget and stick with it. Money truly is the root of all evil! And it can cause a LOT of stress. Cut down your stress by sticking to your budget! Plan a celebration that you can afford, even if that means cutting your guest list. 
• IF and only if it's in your budget, hire an event planner, seriously! They'll not only save you money (because they're the professionals), but they'll save your sanity! Trust us! 
• If you're not hiring an event planner, don't be afraid to tackle decor yourself. Pinterest can either be your friend or your worst nightmare! Don't tackle too much on your own, enlist friends and family to help. 
• Keep the time of day that you plan on having your celebration in mind. This will help you determine the type of food to serve. 
• Don't worry about the small details, if it's not important to you. Meaning...... is it really important to wrap the utensils in the ashy blue ribbon or is that detail really just for show? If it's important to you, do it; but if it doesn't get completed, don't stress about it. No one would ever know but you. Trust us when we say that even though it's pretty to look at, it's not necessary.  And even though we're all about inspiring our readers, it's not something that we want you to stress over.
• And remember that a celebration without cake is just a meeting; so don't forget the cake or cupcakes or some kind of dessert!! Even if it is a store bought cake mix made at home! 

Stress can cause a lot of things to happen, both physically and emotionally and we would never want you to stress over the small things. At the end of the day, what is important is that you are surrounded by family and friends that are there for you to help celebrate your occasion, no matter what it is! Remember that they are there for you and while the small details are pretty to look at, that's not why they are truly there; so don't stress yourself out wrapping your brain around those things. 

1-Don't expect to get much attention from service personnel by
saying "we're on our honeymoon." Bora Bora gets many newlyweds,
and the special treatment goes only so far.

2-Do pick up a fish identification guide so you'll know what you're
looking at when you're snorkeling or diving.

3-Do sign up for one of the shark- and ray-viewing lagoon tours
offered at Bora Bora. Be aware that these trips involve getting in the
water with feeding reef sharks, something dozens of visitors do
every day without incident. If you're not convinced, it's also possible
to stay in the boat for that part of the tour.

4- Don't expect to find many bargains on Bora Bora. This is easily
the most expensive island in the South Pacific—and also one of the
most memorable.

5-Do ask about the operator's policy on shark feeding if you plan to
scuba dive or snorkel. Shark feeding is a common practice on Bora
Bora, though some experts feel it's unwise to make the animals
dependent on handouts and to make them associate people with
food. If you agree, or if you just don't like the idea of being near
hungry sharks, seek out an operator who doesn't engage in feeding,
though they can be hard to find.

6-Do take along everything you need (from camera supplies to
sunscreen) if you want to save money. Prices for most items are far
higher than what you'll pay at home. Also consider stowing a few
food items in your suitcase to save on a trip or two to the pricey
restaurants. 

7-Do be careful if you're swimming near an offshore motu. At certain
times, strong currents can be created that have the potential to sweep
you out into the open sea.

8-Don't be frightened if you find a gecko in your room (usually you'll
find more than one). They're harmless unless you're an insect, though
their high-pitched "barking" can be a strange sound to wake up to.

9-Do book flights and hotels well in advance, especially if you're
interested in the high-end resorts or if your vacation falls during a
school holiday.

10-Do invest in a pareu and experiment with a few of the many ways
to wear it.

11-Do take in the view of tombstonelike Mount Otemanu from the pier
at Bloody Mary's Restaurant and Bar.
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12-Don't feed the local dogs. There are so many strays that they have
become major pests.

13-You can rent a bicycle or small car to circle the island on its
winding, two-lane road. Jeep safaris take you up steep tracks to
interior viewpoints. Seven large cannons installed at four different sites
during World War II can still be visited. (Bora was the site of a U.S.
base during the war.) Several ancient ceremonial sites, or marae, are
also open to visitors.

14-Crime is relatively rare on Bora Bora. Still, it's wise to practice
commonsense precautions.

15-Bora Bora gets its drinking water from a modern desalinization plant,
and drinking it from the tap isn't as risky as it is elsewhere. However, if
you would rather not take any chances, prepackaged water and other
drinks are widely available.

16-When swimming on rocky or coral-laden beaches, always wear
sandals, flip-flops or some other footwear to avoid stonefish, the
lagoon's only common danger. These fish look just like rocks and have
spines that inject a poison if you step on them, which can be extremely
painful and occasionally fatal. If you do step on one, apply heat
immediately and head to the nearest doctor or hospital.

17-Couples Retreat, starring Vince Vaughn, was filmed at the St. Regis
Bora Bora Resort.
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18-Transvestites (or mahu) are an accepted part of the French
Polynesian community and often work in restaurants, on airplanes and
in boutiques on Bora Bora.

Ready to jump off your own over water bungalow into the crystal blue waters? The best way to get the most out of a honeymoon like this is to let a travel professional handle the details.  This way you will not encounter any unexpected surprises! 

Your engagement is coming to an end, and the big day is weeks away! What to do now? You have the venue, dress, and photographer all locked in. Now it is time to shift focus on what you should devote your energy on. Check out these small investments that are sure to give you a peace of mind leading into the best day of your life!

Sneak away for a girls day at the spa
Your bachelorette party has come and gone but considering all the pre wedding stress, it might be a good idea to take a relaxing day trip to the spa with a couple close friends! Stepping back and taking a day for some self-care is just what the doctor ordered! Being pampered with your besties will provide you with the perfect distraction so you are fully prepared to take on the best day with your future husband!
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Invest in a quality bra
Out of all the things to be worried about on your wedding day, like the weather, messing up your vows, and hoping everyone has a good time, feeling comfortable shouldn’t be one of them! But, when your bra wire is digging into your rib cage during your father daughter dance, it will shoot to the top of your list! Investing in quality undergarments will ultimately make you forget you have anything on under that dress! True & Co., an online bra company has plenty of bras that comfortably form to your body. Trust me, you won't regret this when you're heading to the after-party still in your wedding dress!

Research a dependable deodorant
As much as you prepared for this day to come, the nerves will kick in as soon as you wake up! When those nerves happen, the nervous sweat is following closely behind. Taking time to do your research when purchasing the perfect deodorant can go a long way. Plus, you’ll need to make sure you’re fully prepared when you’re rocking the dance floor with your guests! You do not want to be the bride with those smelly departing hugs! Remember, buy and test your deodorant weeks before your nuptials to ensure that it lasts for your body type!

Buy stand-by flats
Rocking those beautiful bridal heels feels amazing! Down the aisle, and throughout your pictures, you’ll look like a queen while feeling extremely confident. Then comes the best part, the reception! Constantly walking around, greeting everyone and dancing the night away with your new hubby can put a toll on your poor toes. Investing in an elegant pair of back up flats becomes almost necessary. You’ll be able to comfortably move around the reception, while not getting your bare feet crushed by your crazy uncle dancing next to you!

Create an emergency kit
One of the worst fears brides may have is ripping their gorgeous dress the day of. Being stuck with no way of quickly fixing the pull or tear can give you anxiety just thinking about it! An easy and simple solution to this potential problem is creating a bridal survival kit filled with the essential items days before the wedding. Don’t forget to include tissues for those sentimental moments!

Make these personal investments, and your wedding day will be an amazing beginning to the rest of your marriage!

Written By: Emily (Guest Blogger)​
​Author bio: Emily is a content creator who loves to write about lifestyle topics. She’s obsessed with keeping up with the current bridal trends of the month. Her favorite hobby includes binge watching Say Yes to the Dress with a refreshing face mask on!

Fall weddings have got to be our favorite wedding season of the year! With summer coming to an end soon, wedding couples should be wrapping up last minute details for their Fall celebrations. Hopefully, some of these Fall trends will make their way into your planning! 

Fashion Trends

Fall weddings mean cooler temps (hopefully) and that means long sleeves and haute, cozy layers. Fashion week was all about 2 piece separates, cashmere sweaters, and full-length skirts. 

Cake Trends

Less is more! Couples are forgoing the fondant designs and sugar paste flowers and are instead opting for a newer version of the naked cake (instead of totally bare layers showing, a thin amount of frosting is spread which allows for the cake to show through) and decorating them with caramel drizzles. They are also ditching traditional cake toppers and opting for small bunches of flowers and greenery.   You may also notice that the size of wedding cakes will be getting smaller, as more couples embrace other fun desserts to share with their guests. 

Color Trends

Deep burgundy and plum shades are dominating the Fall wedding scene and we can't get enough of this moody jewel tone combination! Complimentary colors include crisp whites and smokey blues paired with metallic. And while gold is always a timeless classic, silver and copper are the must-haves this Fall season. 

Flower Trends

Where the wild things are! Fresh, wild flower-themed designs are still the hottest trend; mix with the jewel tones of the season and you have the perfect floral designs for your bouquet, centerpieces, and ceremony!

Food Trends

Food is probably hands down one of our favorite aspects of any celebration! And who wants to serve boring food to their guests?! Get creative and have different food and drink stations. From mashed potato bars and build-your-own mac n' cheese station to snowball and gourmet coffee stands with donuts; you can truly make your reception a unique experience. 

The time has finally arrived: your wedding day! You probably didn't sleep much, but it's now morning and we're here to tell you that the nervous, jittery feeling that you're feeling: is completely normal! Every detail that you've been dreaming of is about to come to fruition!

A wedding has many moving parts; there's your dress, your hair and makeup, your venue, your caterer, your florist and planner, and it's worrying about whether or not your groom is prepared......... STOP! And just breathe! 

​Here's a list of things to tell yourself the morning of your wedding: 

​It's Going To Be Okay
Like really, everything is going to be okay! It's your wedding day, whatever happens, just let it go! At the end of the day, you'll still be married to the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with!

You Are Beautiful
Yes, you are truly beautiful! We all have our issues when it comes to our appearances, no one is immune to that. But remember, your groom loves you and is marrying you for who you are, not what you look like. Don't let the little voices in your head weigh you down....you are beautiful! 

Trust Your Vendor Team
You hired your wedding professionals for a reason. For many vendors, this isn't their first rodeo. Now trust that they'll have your back and give you a day that you'll always remember!

Love Surrounds You
Remember that on your wedding day, you are surrounded by people that love you. Your friends and family are there to support you because of their love and they only want to see you happy. 

Enjoy A Moment Alone With Your Spouse
Your wedding day will feel like a whirl wind that's going ninety to nothing. Remember to take a moment to yourselves, even if it's just for a short period of time. It's your wedding day! Yes, your guests are there to celebrate your union and will be excited to congratulate you, but at the end of the day, it'll just be you and your groom; show him during your wedding that he's the most important thing in your life. 

Our suggestion is to take a moment after the ceremony/post-ceremony photos and before the reception to sit down in solitude with your groom. Have a quick, intimate meal, have a drink, or just enjoy the alone time, before the whirlwind of wedding events continue. ​

ALABAMA
 Hampton Cove Wedding Plantation
Gurley, AL
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ARKANSAS
The Brick Ballroom
Siloam Springs, AR​
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DELAWARE
The Farmhouse
Wilmington,  DE
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FLORIDA
​Club Lake Plantation
​Apopka, FL
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GEORGIA
The Cotton Mill
Jefferson, GA
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KENTUCKY
The Barn at Cedar Grove
Greensburg, KY
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LOUISIANA
The White Magnolia
Kentwood, LA
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MARYLAND
1840s Plaza
Baltimore, MD
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MISSISSIPPI
Desert Plantation
Woodville, MS
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NORTH CAROLINA
Biltmore
Asheville, NC
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OKLAHOMA
Coles Garden
Oklahoma City, OK
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SOUTH CAROLINA
Tanglewood Plantation
Lynchburg, SC
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TENNESSEE 
Belle Meade Plantation
Nashville, TN
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TEXAS
The White Sparrow
Quinlan, TX
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VIRGINIA
Sundara
Boones Mill, VA
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WEST VIRGINIA
The Greenbrier
White Sulphur Springs, WV
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Photography by: MLM Photography | Bride: Shruhi Modi | Groom: Ravi Patel

An Engagement Story by Shruhi:
​"After 3 and a half years and a year of asking “when are we gonna get married?” it finally happened. So the Thursday before Father’s Day weekend, Ravi shows up at like 10pm out of nowhere at my house. My parents are like “uhh Shruhi did you know Ravi was coming?” And I’m like “no he didn’t tell you guys at least?!” So everyone was shocked to see him and he surprises me and shows up out of nowhere all the time, so I didn’t think anything of it. And so every year all my aunts and uncles in my hometown get together on St. Simons island for Father’s Day and we grill and hang out. So my dad had mentioned that the Father’s Day Get Together was on Saturday and I was like “oh okay sounds good, Ravi and I will be there.” So Saturday comes around and Ravi says “oh let’s go a little early and we can get just spend time together and get ice cream at Fuse” (it’s a frozen yogurt shop on St. Simons and every time Ravi and I are together we get frozen yogurt, so again I didn’t think anything of it.) So we get to the island and we get frozen yogurt and walk around and Ravi says “oh hold on I forgot napkins I’ll be right back.” So I’m just sitting on the bench eating my ice cream and he comes back with napkins and says “oh they were having some kind of raffle at Fuse so I entered our names in.” (So Ravi is literally always entering raffles at his job every few months and he’s always winning, it’s crazy.) So when someone called him 15 minutes later saying he won the raffle, I didn’t think anything of it. So we go back to Fuse and they’re like “you guys won tickets to the lighthouse! Enjoy!” And I’m like oh that’s awesome, I’ve only been once when I like 8 years old. Little did I know, that when he went back to “get napkins” he actually gave the people fake Tickets to the lighthouse and asked the Fuse worker to call him saying he won the raffle. So we go over to the St. Simons Island lighthouse and Ravi hands the desk clerks these tickets. They look at him a little weird but I have to go to the bathroom so again, I don’t think anything of it. Again, little did I know they were fake tickets and he had the real ones on his phone in an email that he conveniently showed them while I had to go to the bathroom, without me knowing. So I go to the bathroom and come back and Ravis like okay let’s go up. So we start walking up and get to the top and it’s just us and some random lady who looks like a classic tourist with a camera and fanny pack. So then I, myself, go to this lady and ask her to take a photo of Ravi and I. Little did I know, this lady was the photographer Ravi had hired to take photos of the proposal. So she takes a photo on our phone and then she says “oh here, I have a professional camera I can take a better photo of you guys and just send it to you. You guys are so cute.” So in my mind I’m like well that’s a little weird but that’s really nice of her so sure. So I pose for the photo and she says “look turn around!” And I turn and Ravi is on his knee with the ring and he’s like “look down.” So I look down from the lighthouse and there’s someone at the bottom holding a sign saying “will you marry me.” And of course I’m freaking out. So after the whole freak out he puts the ring on and we take some more photos and then walk down the lighthouse and from behind the lighthouse my entire family and all of Ravi’s family come out with flowers and I’m again shocked to see everyone. And then we take more photos and everything calms down and Ravi and I take some his family walking around the island and on the Pier. Then he and I finally head back to my house and we walk in and my whole family and everyone is there and they’re like “surprise!” and they had decorated the house and had food and we had a small engagement party with everyone that’s close to us. It was absolutely the most perfect day of my life."

The Photographer's Favorite Moments:
"​My favorite moment was when she told me she was really convinced that he was never going to propose to her. That even as he walked ahead of her on the path to the lighthouse she was looking at his pockets to see if she saw a ring box bulge and she didn't. So this surprise proposal was exactly what is was suppose to be a ......TOTAL SURPRISE!"

Hey Florist Friends!!
Want to be featured in Vol 8 (May 2019)?

We're looking for bouquets that make a statement for an editorial we're working on for our next issue! 

We're all about inspiring our readers, so fresh designs are always welcomed! 

*Submit 1-3 professionally edited photographs of bouquets you have designed for a chance to be published in Vol 8. 
Please include the type of floral used, including any greenery. 

​Here in the South, every occasion is worth celebrating and sometimes we need to stick to a budget. Here are 5 tips to keep your next celebration on a budget, while still having fun! {Please keep in mind that these tips are not suggestions for weddings,
as those budgets are much different.}

•  Timing is truly everything! If you’re looking to cut back on food expenses, the perfect time for a day-time celebration is from 1:30 p.m. until 4:30 p.m; it’s after lunch and before dinner. Your guests won’t expect a full meal. If you’re having a night-time shindig, the best times are from 7:00 p.mm. until 10:00 p.m. of course this is more adult friendly, but it’s after dinner, so guests shouldn’t expect a full meal.

 

• Send digital invitations versus printing and mailing. By using social media and/or online resources such as E-vite, you can easily track RSVPs and save on design fees and postage.

 

• Start planning in advance. This will give you time to price shop on décor; that way you’re not running around last minute, potentially paying more.

 

• If it’s an adult party, create a  signature drink versus having to buy a variety of different liquors. This way, you’ll only have to purchase 1—2 types of alcohol. And of course, supply plenty of non-alcoholic drinks for your guests who don’t drink alcohol.

 
 

• Enlist your friends and family. If they offer, take them up on it, especially if they know how to cook well! And if party planning is their thing, by all means accept the help. In some cases, having more is better!

​It’s time for “one last fling before the ring!”  That’s right, it’s time to plan the Ultimate Bachelorette Party!  This is a great occasion to share a memorable evening or weekend with your besties, and let loose before the wedding.  Here are some ideas and tips to help you create an unforgettable soiree.

What is a “Bachelorette Party?”, you may ask.
The modern day bachelorette party was modeled after the ever popular bachelor party, as a way for a single woman to celebrate with her closest friends and family before her marriage.  This party is usually hosted by the ladies in the bridal party, but may be thrown by a close friend or relative, much like a bridal shower.   It is a great time for bonding, and general merriment.
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Check with the Bride first.  What would she do for a Klondike Bar?
Ask her what she envisions for her party.  Does she just want a wild night out, or a relaxing weekend with her nearest and dearest?  Does she have a location in mind?  She may want to go club-hopping, and to dance with tons of people.  She may want to go to a winery for a tasting, or a sip and paint party.   The bride may want to stay local in her hometown and have a great meal and a movie with her friends, or she may want to head to the nearest metropolitan area to catch a Broadway-worthy show.  Renting a vacation home in a place like Edisto Beach, South Carolina, or taking a riverboat cruise are also fun options.  Las Vegas is always a popular destination for bridal parties.

Are there any special requests or hard limits to the bachelorette fun?  Would the bride like to see an exotic dancer or sip a favorite alcoholic drink throughout the evening?  Does she enjoy games?  A fun scavenger hunt, with pre-planned clues and small gifts at several locations, could provide lots of excitement and photo opportunities.  Bachelorette Bingo or Pin the (insert item of choice here) on the body part of choice is always good for laughs.  Just remember to keep it tasteful, depending on the bride-to-be’s personality.   Also, remember that if there are guests that are under the legal drinking age, or simply do not indulge in adult beverages, to plan accordingly.   This includes having pre-arranged transportation, or designated drivers.  

​To Theme, or not to Theme?  That is the question.
Many times, the party has a theme, such as Spa Day, or “Pop, Fizz, Clink!”  Channeling our inner Mermaids, Unicorns, and Goddesses have been popular themes in recent years.  Group fitness classes are also fun, with lots of choices available.  Hot Yoga, Pilates, Spin Class, Bungee Cord and Fabric Aerial Classes, and yes, even Pole Dancing are all great options.

Does the bride love music?  A trip to Nashville would be a great theme, including cowboy boots, denim, rhinestones, and a visit to the Grand Ole Opry.  Or perhaps a jaunt over to New Orleans, to sample beignets, gumbo, and the famous French Quarter would be perfect.  If your bride is mad about the mouse, then slide on down to Orlando, to the Happiest Place on Earth – Disney World!  

Is the bride an avid traveler, or sports fanatic?  Or does she prefer to wander leisurely through bookstores and flea markets?  Does she enjoy shopping for pretty lingerie and accessories?  Why not book a hair and makeup team, and a talented photographer, and host a boudoir marathon?  Build the party around the bride’s interests and hobbies.  Sometimes a theme can be as simple as using the colors of the wedding, and carrying it through the décor of the bachelorette party, from the invitations, to the tableware.  Search a website like Pinterest for really cute and creative ideas.  Don’t forget to coordinate the guests’ attire, with fun t-shirts or accessories to announce to all that you are part of the Bride’s Tribe.  The bride should stand out among her crew, so add a great tiara and sash and you are ready to hit the town!   Be sure to provide awesome swag for everyone, including a hang-over relief kit!  There are so many options available, you can’t really go wrong in personalizing the celebration for the bride.

​Time is Money, or Divide and Conquer.
Just as planning a very detailed wedding takes time, so does planning a smaller celebration, like the bachelorette party.  The bachelorette party can take place anywhere from a few months to a week or two before the wedding.   The sooner that the date is selected for the party, the sooner you can put your ideas into motion.  Consider hiring an event planner to assist.  Create a guest list.  If the party is to be a surprise for the bride, consult with the other members of the bridal party and close friends, and decide on date, location, theme and overall budget for the party.  Divide the party planning tasks accordingly:  finding a venue for the party and making reservations, buying or making decorations, invitations and favors, planning activities or entertainment, ordering food and beverages, and transportation such as a limo, party bus, Uber or taxi.  Also consider hiring a photographer to play paparazzi for the evening.  They will capture the moments others may miss.  Total up the costs of everything, and divide equally.  Then collect the necessary amount of money from each guest to cover the bill, including tips.  The only person that should not pay for anything is, of course, the bride.  All she needs to do is enjoy spending time with her besties!

​Appetizers are the new dinner party! Years ago, a good dinner party in the South consisted of BBQ and good drinks! Now that we’re getting a little older, our we’ve made our dinner parties a little more sophisticated—BUT we still love our BBQs!
 
A fun –and delicious—way to incorporate appetizers into your dinner parties is by creating a charcuterie board.
 
What exactly is charcuterie?
 Charcuterie is a French word for any smoked, dry-cured or cooked meat.
{You had us at meat!}
You can add a variety of items that can be paid in many  different combinations. Talk about an explosion of flavor in your mouth! Combinations  usually include various ingredients that compliment the meats and cheeses for a fun do-it-yourself appetizer experience for your guests.

​· Select a variety of meat and cheese, meaning an assortment of mild, medium and bold flavors. Some people prefer softer, mild meats and cheeses, where other folks love big, bold flavors. Be sure you have options for both mild and bold flavors, as well as middle-of-the-road options.

· Add seasonal fruit to the mix. While the main event attraction of a charcuterie board should be the meat, it is always smart to include fresh in-season fruit to add sweetness to the salty and to change up the experience. If you want to get extra fancy, you can roast or grill fresh fruit.

· Jams or preserves: Include 1 or 2 jams or preserves for some added flavor and sweetness to balance out the dry and salty meat and cheese. Fig spread goes marvelously with many cheeses and meats, so I always like to include it. I also like to include apricot jam, but raspberry or grape jam works, too. Again, you can step this up by using homemade jams, but store-bought works great and chances are you already have several options in your pantry.

· Provide something briny to pair with the meat and cheese. Pickled vegetables, such as gherkins or pickles, olives, pickled jalapenos or pepperoncinis are great on charcuterie boards. They can be paired easily with the bold meats, such as salami or sopressata, and add a mouth-watering tang.

· Other spreads: You may also include any of your favorite spreads, such as stone ground mustard, tapenade, pate, hummus, and/or white bean dip. These spreads are great for smearing on sliced baguette for stacking meat and cheese on top.

The “Grand Board” at City Pork in Baton Rouge, Louisiana is mainly made up of St. Andre Triple Cream Brie, Gruyere, Roquefort, Gouda, Lonza, Smoked Duck, Chicken Liver Paté, Hog’s Head Cheese, and Truffle Sausage. 

Photo Credits: Rachel Erin Photography | City Pork, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
​ Want to see this in print? It's featured in our Special Edition: The Food & Drink Issue.

​James and Michelle met in college.  He was the shy guy who caught the eye of many ladies.  Through a mutual friend he met Michelle and she caught his eye.  It was love at first sight and they haven't taken their eyes off of each other since.  He is the classic southern gentleman and she is the epitome of a modern southern belle who brings out the best in him.  The two dated throughout college and their relationship grew as they supported and helped each other meet their own personal goals.  After graduation and as James began to secure things for the future, he finally felt the time was right.  James asked Michelle to go with him to visit the Old Sheldon Church ruins.  One of their favorite things to do is visit new places and take little weekend trips so of course, she agreed.  James had a planner create a picnic with a little bohemian flare and asked along a photographer to capture their time together at the ruins.  They walked and danced around the ruins.  They enjoyed fresh fruit and sharing love and laughter while talking about the blessings they have been given in this life.  As they sat on the blanket sharing their love for each other, James slipped a ring on her finger and asked her to share forever.  Of course, she said yes!  What else is there to say when you are real sweet on your sweetheart?  

Vendors:
Venue: Old Sheldon Church Ruins , Yemassee, SC
Planner and Stylist:  Real Memory Designs by Sharon 
Announcements:  Adaria Designs by ahd  
Photographer:  Torianna Brooke Photography and Cinema  

Hawaii has been a sought after destination for decades for honeymooners.  There is good reason as to why.  Hawaii offers so many things for couples, especially honeymooners.  There are mountains, beaches, city life, history, culture,ambiance, food and so much more.  Here are 3 top reasons why Hawaii is an excellent destination for honeymooners.

1.  The Resorts.  There are resort styles that will fit any couples budget and style.  From quaint boutique resorts to high rise hotels to lavish beach resorts.  Honeymooners can experience the type of rooms they want for their honeymoon.  A variety of choices gives them options. 

2. Island Options.  There are several islands that make up Hawaii and each island is unique and has its own personalities.  You have islands that are filled with adventure, an island for the more laid back, an island for those that want to be isolated and an island for those that crave the hustle and bustle of city life.  The beauty of it is you can do more than one island in a trip giving you multiple experiences for your honeymoon.

3. Romance.  Romance is a priority in honeymooning.  Hawaii offers so many romantic options.  The islands are filled with flowers, views, food, hula dancing, amazing sunsets, breathtaking sunrises.  There are thousands of excursions and activities for couples to take part in for fun and romance.

Hawaii is an excellent honeymoon choice.  In the upcoming blogs I will feature each island and what they have to offer so stay tuned! 

The age old question: what's the difference between escort cards and place cards?
​While both tell each guest where they will be sitting at a reception, there is a notable difference. 

What is an escort card at a wedding?
Escort cards are a little more informal. They will tell yours guests which table to sit at, but not which seat to sit in, allowing your guest to sit where they prefer at their assigned table. Some couples do, however, choose to have both an escort card and a place card, but it is not necessary if you choose to do an escort card only. 

So, what is a place card?
Place cards are more detailed. They will tell your guests which table and seat to sit in. These are for more formal wedding receptions where the wedding couple may be having a seated dinner. This will help the caterer determine who gets the chicken, beef, fish, etc. dish (sometimes these will have a slight variation such as a dot or color to signal to the caterer on who gets what to help distribute meals).

Whatever you choose, have fun and get creative when designing a way to display your cards! 

Some of the best moments in life are created around a table with good food and good company. Create a tablescape that is warm and inviting to your guests that make them feel as if they were at home. 

THE MINIMALIST 
When designing your tablescape, keep your meal in mind. If you want your food to shine, keep your tablescape simple. 

Add a few layers and texture to a minimal tablescape to ensure a warm and inviting table. 

THE FARMHOUSE
The farmhouse table is warm and inviting to all! It's a table where family and friends can gather for laughter and good food. 

Your farmhouse tablescape can be simple, elaborate, full of lush floral, layered with textures, and varying elements or a mix of it all! 

Photo Credits:
Photographer: Double Windsor Photography
China, Flatware, Glassware: The Prissy Plate Company
Vintage Rentals: The Vintage Rental Co
Floral: The Botanical Studios
Venue: Atlanta History Center - Swan House & Smith Family Farm
Styling: Blush Pink Weddings
Catering: Sun in My Belly
Hair & Makeup: B. Young Studio + Spa
Model: Hannah Lee Yoder

After much discussion and debate, Southern Celebrations Magazine, is making a move to an annual print publication; where our contributors, sponsors, and advertisers who are featured in print can get the maximum exposure all year long! 

Vol 7 will still be launched in May 2018. Moving forward with Volume 8 being launched in October 2019 (I know, I know; that's such a long time away) but it will be SO worth it! 

So, where does that leave SouthernCelebrationsMag.com? 
We'll keep featuring Real Weddings, Celebrations, and Styled Inspirations like we have been! Nothing here changes, if anything, we'll actually be updating our website more often to keep up with the demands of our online community! 

Want to advertise in Volume 7? Request our Media Kit. 

The weather is warming up here in the South and Spring wedding season is in full bloom! Many couples get their inspiration for their celebrations from the colors of Spring itself. 

These 10 Real Weddings are full of Spring inspiration!

Fresh flowers! What else says Spring like a hanging floral backdrop for your cake table. 

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

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​The pops of red in this beautiful diy wedding is what hooked us on Shelby & Brandon's wedding! From the shoes to guys' socks, the color is beautifully balanced with the greys, even the pops of red in the bouquets are gorgeous!

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

A simple ceremony arbor adorned with coral and peachy hues for a late-Spring wedding. 

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Peonies, babys breath, and cascading greens are just some of the few floral elements that make up this fun, Spring bouquet. 

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Bridals in a field of flowers! There's no way you could pull off such a beautiful shot in Winter! This late-Spring wedding in North Carolina is super dreamy! 

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

How fun are these?! Upside down umbrellas filled with flowers and greenery! 

​​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

The soft hues in this wedding cake that Baking on the Bayou designed is perfect for this Spring wedding  New Orleans.

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

A gorgeous floral crown is the perfect accessory for this Texas bride! 

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

The soft hues of lilac and lavender are what Spring weddings are made of!

See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Blush and soft hues, green grass, and lots of sunshine! This Georgia wedding is full of Southern charm that's perfect for a Spring celebration!

​See more of this Real Wedding HERE.

Choosing a cover for a new issue is never an easy task! Sometimes we wish that we could have 5 different covers, but in reality we can't!  What we have done though, is narrow down our choices; and even narrowing them down was a hard decision! 
In no particular order, we have our final Vol 7 cover choices below! 
​While this isn't a contest, we'd still love to know which one is your favorite cover choice!
​The Vol 7 cover choice won't be announced until we open pre-sales in April. We'll also be choosing one of these for a Fall cover change for Vol 7!
{Scroll down to pick which is your favorite.}

 Bear Claw Vineyards & Winery, Inc. | Planning + Design: Cathy Nugent / A Hosting Home | Custom Table + Ceremony Backdrop: A Hosting Home  | Photography: Shannon Ford Photography | Cake: Cake Envy | China + Flatware + Napkins: The Prissy Plate Company | Dress: Wedding Angels Bridal Boutique | Tuxedo: Savvi Formalwear – Mall of GA  | Stationary: Paper Made Lovely | Florist: Bantam & Bloom | MUA: Vigilante Cosmetics | Macrame Piece: MyMacramania | Ring and Bridal Jewelry: Misayo House | Models: Hope + Justin

​ Kandi Daniel Studios | Paper Flowers: Bess of 622 Press | Cookies/Cake: Not As Famous Cookie Company | Rentals: The Vintage Rental Company | Styling: Blush Pink Weddings 

​Double Windsor Photography | Wedding Angels Bridal Boutique | The Botanical Studio | Atlanta History Center | Cassie Young | B. Young Beauty Studio + Spa 

​Danielle Brown Photography & Film | Paper Flowers: Bess of 622 Press | Cookies/Cake: Not As Famous Cookie Company | Rentals: The Vintage Rental Company | Styling: Blush Pink Weddings | B. Young Beauty Studio + Spa ​